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twistedstemtwistedstem Posts: 3,912 ✭✭✭✭✭
well tommorrow marks the day my youngest sons odometer hits 7,665 days or 183,960 hours or more commonly called his 21st birthday!!! so was figuring he would want to go out carousing with some of his buddies and do it up.when i approached him about his plans and ready to lay down some parental concern and guilt when he says"oh yeah iwas figuring you and i would go to that cigar bar you and mo like!!!" i almost cried...he figured it be cool if just he and i could grab some drinks and smokes together.i was very happily surprised.just yesterday he came home from work all singing and happy ,when the wife asked why he said "cause me and dad are going out thursday and doin it up!!"so what should his first real cigar be??and what should his first drink be??
no matter where you go, there you are.

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  • EulogyEulogy Posts: 2,463 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Something you enjoy, try not to over think it. Whatever you have will be special because you're together. Enjoy the night, my father passed when I was 19 and we never really had a chance to bond.
  • rsherman24rsherman24 Posts: 7,084 ✭✭✭✭✭
    That will be a special day. I would say a Padron. Always solid smoke and he can always remember it as his first and be a reliable go to down the road.
  • matkn293matkn293 Posts: 3,565 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I am sure he has never had a beverage before cough cough cough. Ask him what he likes. The stick him with a good cigar, maybe pull a special one to you out of the humi. I am sure the B&M will understand. Then get yourself One That will special to you one day down the road.

    Life is too short to smoke bad cigars!!!

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  • 0patience0patience Posts: 10,665 ✭✭✭✭✭
    twistedstem:
    "so what should his first real cigar be??and what should his first drink be??
    My son's first request for a cigar was a Torano 1916.
    Over the years he'd seen me have box after box of them and decided that since they were my favorite, he wanted one.

    So what I'm saying is, if there is one cigar that is your favorite and he's seen you smoke it time and time again, that would be the one I'd go for.
    Same with the drink.

    He is more likely to want to have what you are having to start with, I would think.
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  • Puff_DougiePuff_Dougie Posts: 4,599 ✭✭✭✭✭
    0patience:
    twistedstem:
    "so what should his first real cigar be??and what should his first drink be??
    My son's first request for a cigar was a Torano 1916.
    Over the years he'd seen me have box after box of them and decided that since they were my favorite, he wanted one.

    So what I'm saying is, if there is one cigar that is your favorite and he's seen you smoke it time and time again, that would be the one I'd go for.
    Same with the drink.

    He is more likely to want to have what you are having to start with, I would think.
    ^^^^This.

    Enjoy the moment, brother!
    "When I have found intense pain relieved, a weary brain soothed, and calm, refreshing sleep obtained by a cigar, I have felt grateful to God, and have blessed His name." - Charles Haddon Spurgeon
  • bandyt09bandyt09 Posts: 4,335 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Puff_Dougie:
    0patience:
    twistedstem:
    "so what should his first real cigar be??and what should his first drink be??
    My son's first request for a cigar was a Torano 1916.
    Over the years he'd seen me have box after box of them and decided that since they were my favorite, he wanted one.

    So what I'm saying is, if there is one cigar that is your favorite and he's seen you smoke it time and time again, that would be the one I'd go for.
    Same with the drink.

    He is more likely to want to have what you are having to start with, I would think.
    ^^^^This.

    Enjoy the moment, brother!
    ^^^^^^This too..............
  • jimmyv723jimmyv723 Posts: 1,858 ✭✭✭
    That's awesome and definitely agree to share a favorite of yours with him as his first smoke. Just don;t go for something too full in the strength department because don;t want him turning green his first time.
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  • BigshizzaBigshizza Posts: 15,659 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Well done Vance!! My son turns 21 in January and wants to spend it with me too. It's like... Wow, he really does like me! I like the idea of sharing your favorite with him.
  • That's awesome I remember the first time I had a drink with my old man nothing special but still a right of passage!
  • Bob_LukenBob_Luken Posts: 10,527 ✭✭✭✭✭
    bandyt09:
    Puff_Dougie:
    0patience:
    twistedstem:
    "so what should his first real cigar be??and what should his first drink be??
    My son's first request for a cigar was a Torano 1916.
    Over the years he'd seen me have box after box of them and decided that since they were my favorite, he wanted one.

    So what I'm saying is, if there is one cigar that is your favorite and he's seen you smoke it time and time again, that would be the one I'd go for.
    Same with the drink.

    He is more likely to want to have what you are having to start with, I would think.
    ^^^^This.

    Enjoy the moment, brother!
    ^^^^^^This too..............
    Yep. ^^^^^^ Me too. Congrats Vance. Enjoy the evening.
  • Ken_LightKen_Light Posts: 3,537 ✭✭✭
    Well done. Seriously incredible. Is it too early to start PMing you for tips? Mine's only about at the 300 day mark lol
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  • Darktower007Darktower007 Posts: 2,580 ✭✭✭✭
    Go with a 4 horsemen shot and a fresh opus x..TOTALLY KIDDING he'll be high from the nic overload and one strong drink. Maybe a Caldwell eastern standard and a vodka martini....shaken not stirred. :)
  • Ken_LightKen_Light Posts: 3,537 ✭✭✭
    I suggest an old fashioned for the drink if you don't have a favorite he'd really want to try.
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  • mmccartneydcmmccartneydc Posts: 3,407 ✭✭✭
    Bob Luken:
    bandyt09:
    Puff_Dougie:
    0patience:
    twistedstem:
    "so what should his first real cigar be??and what should his first drink be??
    My son's first request for a cigar was a Torano 1916.
    Over the years he'd seen me have box after box of them and decided that since they were my favorite, he wanted one.

    So what I'm saying is, if there is one cigar that is your favorite and he's seen you smoke it time and time again, that would be the one I'd go for.
    Same with the drink.

    He is more likely to want to have what you are having to start with, I would think.
    ^^^^This.

    Enjoy the moment, brother!
    ^^^^^^This too..............
    Yep. ^^^^^^ Me too. Congrats Vance. Enjoy the evening.
    ^^^^ totally agree with this Vance! Congrats my friend, you should be proud that you raised a son that loves you that much. I would totally cry as well! Hey if you drink natty light, coors, whatever, he will see it as you accepting him as a man. So give him what you like and he's seen you enjoy over the years!
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 3,917
    It sounds like he'd be happy with bread and water because he would be hanging out with you. Sage advice was already given. Congratulations and have fun!!
  • twistedstemtwistedstem Posts: 3,912 ✭✭✭✭✭
    well last night went great!!!son and i stepped out after dinner hit my favorite cigar bar,place was busy but not crowded.so we sat and ordered of course logan got carded.waitress wished him a happy birthday and told him first drink was on her!!so he wanted some thing light and sweet.went with a fuzzy navel.i bought 2 my fathers to start with ,hit up there walkin and let him pick another.he touched smelled asked alot of questions.he picked out a tabak especial.so we smoked and he drank(lol)was 2 fuzzynavels/a whiskey flight (kahlua,baileys and disarrano.)finished with a fat tire on tap.we talked laughed and at one point he started singing along with the music!!!was an excellent evening.thank you all for sharing it with me!!heres a couple pics i took with my crappy phone camera. his first real cigar! logans stogie photo 4ca48dbd-1a43-4f24-ad2f-b842310c454d_zps8a625612.jpg his empty flight photo Photo0007_zpsd32eab6e.jpg and his first beer (so he saiys) logans 1st beer photo b3f7a3a3-a1f4-450b-a1d7-3da27ff28c09_zps6163a5e5.jpg
    no matter where you go, there you are.

  • EulogyEulogy Posts: 2,463 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Looks like you two had a great night on the town. Congrats, Vance.
  • First_WarriorFirst_Warrior Posts: 3,356 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Vance, your'e a lucky man. i was 35 before I became good friends with my dad.
  • rsherman24rsherman24 Posts: 7,084 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Sounds like a perfect night Vance. I hope you have many more
  • roland_7707roland_7707 Posts: 2,833 ✭✭✭
    Right on. Thats amazing.
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  • matkn293matkn293 Posts: 3,565 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Fantastic. Sounds like a great evening! Hope you enjoy many more.

    Life is too short to smoke bad cigars!!!

    Oh when the Blues, Oh when the Blues, Oh when the Blues go marching in!


  • mmccartneydcmmccartneydc Posts: 3,407 ✭✭✭
    Very cool bro!
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