Love or hate spouse or significate other

genareddog
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My wife is part of a forum for women over the age of 50. There was a post yesterday of how this lady has been married for 25 years and hates her husband but still married. 95% of the comments were the same.
Now it’s your turn. Love or hate? If hate, why are you still with him/her.
I love my wife more today than I ever have. She is my best friend. We do just about everything together. We have been married for 30 this summer and have been together for 34 years. Couldn’t imagine life without her.
Now it’s your turn. Love or hate? If hate, why are you still with him/her.
I love my wife more today than I ever have. She is my best friend. We do just about everything together. We have been married for 30 this summer and have been together for 34 years. Couldn’t imagine life without her.
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Happy wife I adore.... happy humidor.
Cнeerѕ! Moтнerғυcĸer
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I don't always like my wife, but I will always love her. I think love is more of the conscience decision that I am going to stand with and support this person no matter what. At some point in time (often multiple points in time) the emotional feeling of love wax and wan, doesn't mean I love her any less."Cooking isn't about struggling; It's about pleasure. It's like sǝx, with a wider variety of sauces."
At any given time the urge to sing "In The Jungle" is just a whim away... A whim away... A whim away...3 -
love.2
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WTF Larry? It's eight months til Valentines Day!4
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Disliked my ex the last 4 years. Took 5 years after that before I was ready to try again. Been with my current wife for 8 years and she makes me laugh every day even if I'm mad at her.
I love that woman.3 -
Love! Together 46, married 44 in September! It’s not always perfect, but the love is always there’5
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Yep.0
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Love - just as with my love for God, it is a conscious decision I make every day. I try to love my God and my family better every day.
I also still like my wife more than any other human being on the planet. We are on day 11 of a 13-day trip to our daughter's wedding. A total of seven days driving, six days in our old home town. It's been a blast.=-=-=-=
Just an Old Gnome5 -
@dol74 Was married twenty years when she passed. Love her and miss her every day. We had our good and bad times but the love was always there. I don't think either of us would have stayed if there wasn't love. Would be such a waste of time.
Trapped in the People's Communist Republic of Massachusetts.
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Love. Married for 17+. Have to work on it; you can't just expect it to be okay all the time, but when it's not okay, you still choose HER over everything else. While I can imagine how some aspects of my life would be different without her, I can't imagine how the best parts could be any better.Intelligence is knowing that a tomato is a fruit; wisdom is knowing not to put it in a fruit salad.
I like Oliva and Quesada (including Regius) a lot. I will smoke anything, though.5 -
She is my boss lady.
After over 30 years of marriage, I have to believe it is love.
As was stated, it takes work and you both have to be willing to work at it.
In Fumo Pax
Money can't buy happiness, but it can buy cigars and that's close enough.Wylaff said:Atmospheric pressure and crap.4 -
Love. Been good and bad times but we always have each others back. Will be 35 years and stronger than ever.5
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Love and respect.3
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Excellent choice of words @First_Warrior !!!
Respect is very important! We've been married over 30 years and it definitely takes effort but the love and respect are always there!2 -
Yep! Love and respect. We’ll have been married for 59 years on the 25th of this month and were together for a couple years before we married. Of course, having the best wife any man ever had makes it easier.... 👴🏻6
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This forum is putting Gena's over 50 forum to shame.2
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Sober Donna, love her.
Drunk Donna, hate that woman.
About 30 to 1 DD lately, may be time for a change.A little dirt never hurt0 -
I dislike immensely all my former wives.0
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I'm very curious how the husbands of the wives who said hate would answer. I'd imagine it's usually mutual hate or love.1
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CalvinAndHobo said:I'm very curious how the husbands of the wives who said hate would answer. I'd imagine it's usually mutual hate or love.0
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genareddog said:CalvinAndHobo said:I'm very curious how the husbands of the wives who said hate would answer. I'd imagine it's usually mutual hate or love.0
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This makes me kind of sad2
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CalvinAndHobo said:genareddog said:CalvinAndHobo said:I'm very curious how the husbands of the wives who said hate would answer. I'd imagine it's usually mutual hate or love.
Now for the subject at hand, there's loving someone and begin IN love with someone two totally different things.
I'm curious what category do those members of the man hater club fall into. 😜1 -
I've said this before, but cops are serial marriers. I like my third and we are very happy together, in fact she is my best friend.However, with my second, I tried to figure out a way to convince a Grand Jury that it was an accidental shooting, when I reloaded to make sure!3