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The last two months I have done some trades. From what I get, they have been kind of lopsided in some people eyes. The question in hand is this. If you want to try a certain cigar or if there is a cigar you truly enjoy. If you have the cigar that the other BOTL wants to try. That's kind of highend in comparison to the cigar he has that's your favorite or a cigar you want to try. Do you make the trade especially if you have boxes or several of the cigars he wants try? Example: I remember when I got a low end cigar from Alienmisprint through the troop bombing they did when I was abroad. At that point of time, I did not know the difference of a highend or lowend cigar. I just knew what a like. I'm still stuck in that mode. When I found out what cigar that was and I could get it at very low price. I was overly excited. But before finding out it was a lowend cigar. I told Alienmisprint I was willing to trade whatever for it. Now, Alienmisprint did not take advantage of that. As you can see. But is it okay to make trades like that? Or do you think you should just try and match the cost of that same stick? Maybe even just suck up the lost of getting the cigar all together because you can't match it even if you have one that's priced higher that you have plenty off? Just wondering what people think. Sometimes we as a BOTL do things not knowing the unwritten law. So with that, you ask questions......
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i make the deal how the other person sees fit. this is roughly a cost based trade with some consideration to difficulty of getting the cigar. then i usually send a few extra for good measure.
Whats a few cigars between friends?
I sound like you, in that there are several low cost sticks that I really like. If I trade for sticks I like, and I can trade some to a BOTL who likes the sticks I send, then cost difference is not important.
There comes a point where you do have to pay attention to what you are sending compared to what you are receiving but the BOTL around here all seem pretty standup and wouldn't take advantage of say someone who wasn't aware of the differences in the prices of some sticks.
If I am sending out a bomb, participating in some project like your recent cabinet or just trading... I try to send something from the persons fav's. or at least some sticks that I really love myself. At least that way if the BOTL get's something he has listed in his bio or I send him some of my favorite's then I can feel that I did the best I could to make the transaction enjoyable for both people. That's what this hobby is all about. ENJOYMENT. Enjoyment of a good cigar, shared with good friends, even if you can't be there while that friend enjoys it.
Potential enjoyment over cost of sticks, anyday.
If I can blow somebody up and make their day, that's awesome. If somebody hits me with sticks I couldn't normally try, that's awesome too.
it's all about balance.
You have nothing to worry about, Rick. Your cigar karma is secured for decades.
This is where I'm at also Sir. I try them all. I'm humble enough to be happy I can try highend smoke. But in the same, I enjoy my Carlos Torano's and Joya de Nicaragua, La Perla and CCOM Labels also. I'm just trying to make sure there's no quote un qoute forum code about trades. I'm not stuck on costs and in the same if I make the trade. Must mean I'm okay with it, right.
Edit: You guys are fast....
Yes Sir's, I got it.
For the price of shipping I try and send 7 or more cigars or it doesn't seem worth it to me. Someone asks for 5, unless they say specifically only 5 (jj), I am going to send more.
Does price matter? It does to a small extent. If you are sending 8 cigars that are all worth $5-$8 a piece the other person asks for. Then receive back all $2-$3 cigars that you don't have in a bio or ask for and really don't enjoy that puts a damper on it.
Am I still going to treat the other person right as I can? Sure. They are just cigars. Not gold or your firstborn child. It is a variable currency with many factors based on personal value and taste. Subjective for each and every one of us.
I enjoyed Indian Tabac when I started and still do. Their maduros are good but inconsistent. If someone likes maduros and asks for recommendations I am going to send one. I like sending at least one 'value' cigar that might surprise someone and ultimately save them some money.
For any of the other unexpected packages I send out I try to send what is on the recipients fav/wish list and if I don't have it I try to match sticks as best I can to their list. For the most part my budget only allows for sticks up to the $8 range but I usually spend much less. For anything higher then that I gotta stand out on the corner with my sign for a couple extra hours and that just isn't worth a $10 and up stick....what can I say I am lazy.
CutleryBarn
Rick, keep doing what you are doing brother.
Personally, I talk to the person Im trading with and just work it out, sort of like kuzi said - whatever makes them comfortable. Do you want to trade based on umber of sticks for number of sticks (ie fiver for a fiver)? Cool. Do you want to trade based on price? Cool too, let me know who's prices you're using so we're on the same sheet of music. And then I usually slip an extra or two in, just for grins.
The LAST thing I want anyone on here to feel when they think about me is that they got taken advantage of. I suppose as long as the communication is there, both sides get what they're after and everyone is happy with the deal when its all said and done, its all good in the hood. :-)
Thats about my same plan. in the few trades/bombs and PIFs ive done I mostly sent my presonal favs and other generally well liked cigars. Its worked great so far. Ive also been treated oh so well on the recieving end. A little too well at times.
Guess I'll keep this going then. My local B&M has a nice selection of cigars. Even after d a m n near burning down. They re-up on their stock real quick. I get stuff out of there that I can't find here on CCOM. Sometimes when I go there, I will pick something out and smoke it there. They have a lounge and it's set up nicely. The atmosphere is laid back and relaxing. Sometimes it gets a little noisey but, that to be expected with alcohol and good fellowship.
With all that said, I find that I don't get much out of my cigar when I'm there. With all the conversations going and the different aroma in the air. My senses are not totally on my cigar. Question, I'm not the only one who has this problem? Meaning, is it best to just have a cigar by yourself? Where you can concentrate on the flavor and strength of the cigar.
But I did want to mention, that you sir, are an awesome BOTL, and the forums are better for having you on here, trades or no trades, bombings or no bombings. You contribute in so many ways here, and its appreciated by all. So keep on doing your thing no matter what that thing is, and don't worry about the rest.
On to the B&M discussion . . . . I'm with you man. Everyone is different, but I Totally agree with you about how I enjoy the social aspect of the hobby, but it is hard to truly appreciate a cigar with a lot of commotion going on. I get bored smoking alone too often, but at the sime time I really prefer it about 2/3s of the time. And for me its not that I'm analyzing the flavors too much, for me its about truly unplugging and getting lost in the moment, and just thinking about all the past, present, and future and everything I'm thankful for.
I usually smoke my sticks outside and most of the time alone. My son will join me for one when our schedules line up and the wife will sit and watch the stars with me but I usually smoke alone.
I do think that other smoke from different cigars would influence the cigar I was smoking, and being as I don't like rooms full of strong various aromas and loud noises for me outside is the only way to go.
The companionship of others while smoking is always nice too though, having someone else to talk to while smoking seems to make the neighbours more comfortable then just me out there talking to myself
this may sound kinda funny... but when I really want to enjoy a cigar and give it my undidvided attention, I go sit on my John Deere in my garage... seriously. It's like a zen place for me.
JDE
"Any cigar smoker is friend, because I know how he feels." Alfred de Musset
"A fine cigar is just like a woman. If you don't light it up just right and suck on it with a certain frequency, it will go out on you." Unknown
“A pipe is to the troubled soul what caresses of a mother are for her suffering child.” Indian Proverb
There are a truckload of Nicaraguan sticks that I enjoy as much as Cubans and they come in at around a third of the price at least.
When I want to show off I open a copy of Cigar Afficionado to a page where they are advertizing the stick I am smoking. Must be a cigar smokers cigar if it appears in CA magazine, LMAO.