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deejmemixxdeejmemixx Posts: 3,084 ✭✭
Just wanted to update anyone that is curious. My mom has stopped all preventive measures and is now DNR. She has been like this since Monday around noon, shortly after she decided she declined very quickly and the doctors gave her 24-72 hours. Its now past that time and she is still here with us, but barely. I dont know how she is still fighting, not eating, drinking and barely able to breath...she is a fighter even after throwing in the towel. My brother is coming on Friday, we hope she makes it to then so she can hear his voice and his arms around her one last time. To everyone that has texted me asking me how everything is going, you have no idea how much it means to me and my family. Who would have thought people you have never met could care so much about you and your family to take time out and check in on you. If you have texted me and I did not respond I am sorry, but will get back to you when my brain clears some. I may be inactive here real soon, but will be available via text anytime. I wish there was more I can do, but there is nothing as its between her and the lord now. Again, thanks to everyone.


  • macs-smokesmacs-smokes Posts: 587
    In our prayers. May her decision to be with God and the time be right for her. No matter what you will feel the loss and will keep you in our prayers.
  • webmostwebmost Dull-AwarePosts: 6,560 ✭✭✭✭✭
    People do like to say farewell before they go. They are often readier than are the people close to them.

    Good luck.

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  • onestrangeoneonestrangeone Austin, TxPosts: 2,444 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Just wanted to let you know you and yours are in my thoughts and prayers.
  • LiquidChaos66LiquidChaos66 OregonPosts: 3,767 ✭✭✭✭
    Im sorry to hear this. :( my thoughts and prayers are with you all.
    Life is like a blind fiver. You never know what you're gonna get.
  • fla-gypsyfla-gypsy Posts: 3,024 ✭✭
    My prayers my brother, I face a similar situation.
  • BigshizzaBigshizza Posts: 15,448 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Man Shane I hope things work out the way they should... I'm here for you whatever you need, just ask! I know what you're going through and it's tough.
  • Amos_UmwhatAmos_Umwhat West TNPosts: 5,592 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Stay strong, stay with her as much as possible, keep talking to her until your brother gets there, I'll bet that's what she's hanging on for. Saying a prayer for you.
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  • Roberto99Roberto99 Posts: 1,077
    From what I have seen on here you are a strong man and it appears that you get this from your mom. May the grace of god be with you now and always.
  • J.S.J.S. Posts: 754
    Very sorry man. I will be praying for you and your family.
  • twistedstemtwistedstem jacksonville floridaPosts: 3,858 ✭✭✭✭✭
    definitely keeping you and your family im our thoughts and prayers.stay strong brother.
    For a moment i dont even care.. Until i feel its hand on my neck

  • mmccartneydcmmccartneydc Posts: 3,407 ✭✭✭
    Prayers out to you and your family Shane!
  • RhamlinRhamlin WVPosts: 7,686 ✭✭✭✭✭
    This really saddens my heart. I pray she's not in pain and God takes her peacefully.
  • roland_7707roland_7707 Posts: 2,834 ✭✭✭
    This really saddens my heart. I pray she's not in pain and God takes her peacefully.
    +1, praying for yall also.
    One God, One Truth
  • deejmemixxdeejmemixx Posts: 3,084 ✭✭
    after a long fight, she has crossed the bridge to a better pain free place. She passed last night around 11:00 P.M. Thank you for all the well wishes and prayers, I know she appreciated it as much as I do.
  • onestrangeoneonestrangeone Austin, TxPosts: 2,444 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Keep the faith Brother.
  • MVW67MVW67 WisconsinPosts: 5,587 ✭✭✭
    Sorry to hear dude. Thoughts are with ya!
    Life is too short, live it like no tomorrow...
  • LiquidChaos66LiquidChaos66 OregonPosts: 3,767 ✭✭✭✭
    Sorry to hear that. Be strong and embrace the memories!
    Life is like a blind fiver. You never know what you're gonna get.
  • prosspross Posts: 874 ✭✭✭
    Sorry to hear. I have worn those shoes and it is an incredibly tough road. Prayers to you and your family.

  • musicman3musicman3 Posts: 622
    So sorry to hear brother. My thoughts are with you and your family. Stay strong and remember the love.
  • BamablowsBamablows Posts: 338
    Sorry to hear about your loss man, my thoughts go out to you and your family.
  • Bob_LukenBob_Luken already sucked before joining forum,.....just sayin'.Posts: 7,865 ✭✭✭✭✭
    "My prayers for you and your family during your time of loss."
  • RBeckomRBeckom Home or out and about somewhere.Posts: 2,190 ✭✭✭
    I am truly sorry I missed this post, my Prayers to you and your family. Take consolation in your own words, she is in a better place now, for that sums it up.
  • deejmemixxdeejmemixx Posts: 3,084 ✭✭
    thanks everyone, its nice to pop in and read some kind words.
  • deejmemixxdeejmemixx Posts: 3,084 ✭✭
    had to share this, my sister in law made this for the memorial. It is beautiful

  • stephen_hannibalstephen_hannibal Posts: 4,317
    I am so sorry man.
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