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  • WaterNerdWaterNerd Posts: 3,368 ✭✭✭✭✭
    This is one of the better discussions I've seen in a while. Like that we are able to talk about topics like this and we are still being respectful to one another :)
    Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak out and remove all doubt
    — Abraham Lincoln


  • jlmartajlmarta Posts: 7,881 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Sleddog46 said:
    Usaf06 said:
    0patience said:
    It amazes me that senior citizens in this nation are treated the same as those on welfare. Yet in other countries, they are trying to lower the retirement ages, while the good ol' US of A is trying to raise it to 70. 
    W...T.......F?

    Oh wait, people are living longer, they say.
    Well, maybe so, but people who work jobs, like loggers, commercial fishermen, mechanics, construction workers and most any other manual labor are not going to be able to do their jobs much past 60.
    And those companies will be looking to move them or get rid of them.

    And these stupid little whelps who think that it should be all for them and screw the senior citizens, cause social security is welfare (they evidently don't know it is paid for by the people), will eventually be old and screwed even worse.
    So the joke is on them. LOL!

    Can't wait for the new taxes to set in.
    I paid over $19K in taxes last year. This year is supposed to be another +3%?
    Should be awesome. Uhg!
    Retirement age is what you want it to be. My retirement age is 50. I can retire in 10 years. SS was not set up as a retirement fund. It was set up to assist you when you retire. We all make our own decisions in life and part of those decisions better be how you are preparing for retirement. If you havent prepared for it then plan on being miserable till you die. Thats the facts. 
    That's Bullshit... I HAD to retire at 62 because I could no longer do my job due to Rheumatoid, Osteo, & psoriatic arthritus. I've been trying to get permanent disability but once again the Government makes you jump through all their hoops. I've had to retain an attorney and this is going on for 3 years now. So spare me your statement about the decisions we make.
    Hey, Doug, is there any possible connection, regardless of how remote, to your having these arthritis issues due to any military service?  Maybe VA disability could be an option....
  • EchambersEchambers Posts: 4,184 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I think one of the things that divides us on this forum (and across the county) is whether or not we believe we have agency. We define agency as the ability to act with a reasonable assurance that our activity will have the desired effect because we control all or most of our environment.

    People who believe in agency  tend to think that if we work hard enough we can achieve anything (this is the American Dream, right?) and tend to view their neighbors  who have less then them as lazy, unmotivated, or at the very least people that haven't worked as hard as them or made poor life choices.  Likewise they strive to be more like their neighbors who seem to have more (aka "keeping up with the Jones.")

    The other group tends to see other environmental factors that diminish a person's agency. For example, women still make less then men, on average, across the board. This is an environmental factor that has a limiting impact on many (but not all) women's' agency. Likewise with racism and generational poverty.

    Politically I am a socially liberal and fiscally conservative. I think if you have the ability to work you should be working and not getting government handouts paid for by people who work for a living. But I also think that the measure of our county--what should make us better than any other country--is our ability to help those that need it. As I said previously, I feel fortunate that only 20% of my wife's and my combined salary has to go towards housing. I'm in this place, I believe because I worked my ass off and made strategic sacrifices to get where I am. But I also have many friends that I know work as hard if not harder than me and are barely scraping by -- and a couple of friends that simply cannot find affordable places to live. I look at their lives and wonder where the American Dream went wrong for them and that makes me sad because I do believe that if you're willing to work hard you should be able to have a high quality of life and I know that that's just not true for a lot of people.
    -- "There's something that doesn't make sense. Let's go poke it with a stick."
  • Sleddog46Sleddog46 Posts: 1,050 ✭✭✭✭✭
    jlmarta said:
    Sleddog46 said:
    Usaf06 said:
    0patience said:
    It amazes me that senior citizens in this nation are treated the same as those on welfare. Yet in other countries, they are trying to lower the retirement ages, while the good ol' US of A is trying to raise it to 70. 
    W...T.......F?

    Oh wait, people are living longer, they say.
    Well, maybe so, but people who work jobs, like loggers, commercial fishermen, mechanics, construction workers and most any other manual labor are not going to be able to do their jobs much past 60.
    And those companies will be looking to move them or get rid of them.

    And these stupid little whelps who think that it should be all for them and screw the senior citizens, cause social security is welfare (they evidently don't know it is paid for by the people), will eventually be old and screwed even worse.
    So the joke is on them. LOL!

    Can't wait for the new taxes to set in.
    I paid over $19K in taxes last year. This year is supposed to be another +3%?
    Should be awesome. Uhg!
    Retirement age is what you want it to be. My retirement age is 50. I can retire in 10 years. SS was not set up as a retirement fund. It was set up to assist you when you retire. We all make our own decisions in life and part of those decisions better be how you are preparing for retirement. If you havent prepared for it then plan on being miserable till you die. Thats the facts. 
    That's Bullshit... I HAD to retire at 62 because I could no longer do my job due to Rheumatoid, Osteo, & psoriatic arthritus. I've been trying to get permanent disability but once again the Government makes you jump through all their hoops. I've had to retain an attorney and this is going on for 3 years now. So spare me your statement about the decisions we make.
    Hey, Doug, is there any possible connection, regardless of how remote, to your having these arthritis issues due to any military service?  Maybe VA disability could be an option....
    Thanks Marty, but I am not a vet so there is no help in that. Plus now dealing with the insurance company to try and get some meds is a PITA. My Rheumatologist prescribed a new med over 2 months ago and I'm still going round with them to get it approved. I now have to walk with a cane and I'm only 65. So much for the Government taking care of those who need it.
    You can't dispel Ignorance if you retain Arrogance!
  • 0patience0patience Posts: 10,665 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Echambers said:
    Politically I am a socially liberal and fiscally conservative. I think if you have the ability to work you should be working and not getting government handouts paid for by people who work for a living. But I also think that the measure of our county--what should make us better than any other country--is our ability to help those that need it. As I said previously, I feel fortunate that only 20% of my wife's and my combined salary has to go towards housing. I'm in this place, I believe because I worked my ass off and made strategic sacrifices to get where I am. But I also have many friends that I know work as hard if not harder than me and are barely scraping by -- and a couple of friends that simply cannot find affordable places to live. I look at their lives and wonder where the American Dream went wrong for them and that makes me sad because I do believe that if you're willing to work hard you should be able to have a high quality of life and I know that that's just not true for a lot of people.
    Well said Eric.

    Which is kind of where my original post was going.
    There ARE young folks willing to work hard and try to better themselves, but realistically, when the odds are against them to start with, usually of no fault of theirs, then what?

    Whether it be because of where they live, what skills they are capable of (some people just aren't good at a lot of things) or because they can't find jobs that they can do, the deck can be stacked against them.

    When I was younger, there were tons of youth training programs and job training tax credits for companies willing to hire young people who needed training.
    Those programs have all been cut.

    Or displaced workers. People who have spent years in an industry that is going away. Often too old to be considered for some of the newer tech jobs, but still need to make ends meet.
    There used to be programs that offered companies tax credits to hire these people.
    All gone now. 
    Combine that with housing that no one can afford starting out, including apartments, then they are stuck. 

    I moved out at 17 and could afford to live. 
    People in their 30s are having a hard time now, with 2 incomes.
    They work hard and make little money.
    Is that their fault? I don't think so.


    In Fumo Pax
    Money can't buy happiness, but it can buy cigars and that's close enough.

    Wylaff said:
    Atmospheric pressure and crap.
  • Diver43Diver43 Posts: 2,169 ✭✭✭✭✭
    In regards to the OP, we have been paying the mortgage for several years now.
    While in the Army I never owned only rented or lived in Military housing. Less than two years before I retired from the Military my ex decided we should divorce. She ended up leaving me with over 20K in debt and took 35% of my retirement check.  I was 37 years old, deep in high interest dept with no job.  I was a Officer for the state of New Mexico for two years. Also met my current wife who also was done wrong by an ex.
    Fast forward to today and my wife is eligible for retirement and I will meet the minimum requirement in a few more years. She has over 35 years Civil service and i a combined Military and Civilian time of 38 years.  Together we paid all debt except mortgage and a small car payment.  We have both put 10-15% of pay into a Thrift Savings Plan. My ex will continue to receive that 35% until one of us dies. We have been divorced for over 20 years and was only married for 11, but that is federal law.
    It will put a damper on our retirement, but we have a plan.
    Those that are still young enough, start your plan now if you havent. Those of us that had monkey wrenches thrown into our plans, do what you can to fix it or work around it.
    Nobody owes anybody anything
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  • Usaf06Usaf06 Posts: 11,298 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Sleddog46 said:
    Usaf06 said:
    0patience said:
    It amazes me that senior citizens in this nation are treated the same as those on welfare. Yet in other countries, they are trying to lower the retirement ages, while the good ol' US of A is trying to raise it to 70. 
    W...T.......F?

    Oh wait, people are living longer, they say.
    Well, maybe so, but people who work jobs, like loggers, commercial fishermen, mechanics, construction workers and most any other manual labor are not going to be able to do their jobs much past 60.
    And those companies will be looking to move them or get rid of them.

    And these stupid little whelps who think that it should be all for them and screw the senior citizens, cause social security is welfare (they evidently don't know it is paid for by the people), will eventually be old and screwed even worse.
    So the joke is on them. LOL!

    Can't wait for the new taxes to set in.
    I paid over $19K in taxes last year. This year is supposed to be another +3%?
    Should be awesome. Uhg!
    Retirement age is what you want it to be. My retirement age is 50. I can retire in 10 years. SS was not set up as a retirement fund. It was set up to assist you when you retire. We all make our own decisions in life and part of those decisions better be how you are preparing for retirement. If you havent prepared for it then plan on being miserable till you die. Thats the facts. 
    That's Bullshit... I HAD to retire at 62 because I could no longer do my job due to Rheumatoid, Osteo, & psoriatic arthritus. I've been trying to get permanent disability but once again the Government makes you jump through all their hoops. I've had to retain an attorney and this is going on for 3 years now. So spare me your statement about the decisions we make.
    You had to retire at 62 because you did not finacially prepare yourself to retire at 50. Thats your decision. I will be able to retire at 50 (probably wont) but thats my decision. Ill spare you nothing but the truth. 
    "I drink a great deal. I sleep a little, and I smoke cigar after cigar. That is why I am in two-hundred-percent form."
    -- Winston Churchill

    "LET'S GO FRANCIS"     Peter

  • Amos_UmwhatAmos_Umwhat Posts: 8,804 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited February 2018
    Back in, I think the early to mid 70's, there was a popular book called "What Color is Your Parachute?" that was meant to get people thinking about retirement at an age of their choosing.  I think it probably worked, for some people.

    Since the 70's, we've seen Corporate America "re-structure" itself many times.  Usually, everyone but the very top of the pyramid gets royally screwed, while those at the top open their golden parachutes and glide effortlessly over to the top of the next pyramid.  This happens over and over again.

    An example, during my over 20 year tenure at one institution the place changed hands 4 times.  Each time, the corporate raiders robbed the workers.  The current governor of Florida took about $9,000.00 from me, personally, may he burn in hell for all eternity.  @Usaf06 , please explain truthfully how this is my fault?  Because that's the stand you're taking here.

    As for disability, this is indeed a great mystery.  I've seen a 28 year old jailbird on full disability, because, get this, "It makes me nervous when people tell me what to do."  My patient in the next room had Lou Gehrig's disease, was still trying to work as a carpenter, and could not get any help from Social Security whatsoever!  Again, please explain how this is his fault?
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    "If you do not read the newspapers you're uninformed.  If you do read the newspapers, you're misinformed." --  Mark Twain
  • 0patience0patience Posts: 10,665 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Ok, so those people who didn't become military, police, fire or get into 6 figure jobs that would allow them to retire at 50, all made poor decisions.
    I get that.

    But...... 
    Those people who chose to take care of their family and not go to college, made a poor decision.
    Those people who grew up poor and chose to take menial labor jobs to support their families made poor decisions.
    Those people who worked their way up in a company or place and took until their 30s to get a job with retirement made poor decisions.
    Those people who put away every spare dollar in their retirement and the company folded and took years to recover a percentage of their retirement, made poor decisions.
    Those people who were injured on their jobs or in service and are on social security made poor decisions.

    Not everyone is born into money or born in a place where the opportunities are there.
    I know, they can move. 
    Well, having lived in a tent on the side of a mountain when I went somewhere for a job, some folks have a thing about being homeless.

    Sorry, but those comments were self righteous and sanctimonious.
    In Fumo Pax
    Money can't buy happiness, but it can buy cigars and that's close enough.

    Wylaff said:
    Atmospheric pressure and crap.
  • Amos_UmwhatAmos_Umwhat Posts: 8,804 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited February 2018
    0patience said:
    Ok, so those people who didn't become military, police, fire or get into 6 figure jobs that would allow them to retire at 50, all made poor decisions.
    I get that.

    But...... 
    Those people who chose to take care of their family and not go to college, made a poor decision.
    Those people who grew up poor and chose to take menial labor jobs to support their families made poor decisions.
    Those people who worked their way up in a company or place and took until their 30s to get a job with retirement made poor decisions.
    Those people who put away every spare dollar in their retirement and the company folded and took years to recover a percentage of their retirement, made poor decisions.
    Those people who were injured on their jobs or in service and are on social security made poor decisions.

    Not everyone is born into money or born in a place where the opportunities are there.
    I know, they can move. 
    Well, having lived in a tent on the side of a mountain when I went somewhere for a job, some folks have a thing about being homeless.

    Sorry, @Usaf06, but those comments were self righteous and sanctimonious.
    I think that's what you meant.  Or did you mean me?

    Funny, I think I fell into every category somewhere in my life.
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    "If you do not read the newspapers you're uninformed.  If you do read the newspapers, you're misinformed." --  Mark Twain
  • 0patience0patience Posts: 10,665 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Yes, sorry I should have put to @Usaf06.
    In Fumo Pax
    Money can't buy happiness, but it can buy cigars and that's close enough.

    Wylaff said:
    Atmospheric pressure and crap.
  • Usaf06Usaf06 Posts: 11,298 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited February 2018
    First off i wasnt born with ****. I was raised by a single parent. Went to 3 elementary schools, 4 middle schools, and 2 high schools. My mother recieved food stamps back when they were actually a booklet. I was evicted from apartment after apartment. Constantly had my power/ water turnwd off due to no payment. I never had anything as a kid but i never blamed my mother or the government. I didnt even blame my dad. I knew if i didnt want to live like that as an adult i had to make the difference. So i did. I apologize if any of you are offended... so be it. There is plenty of private investment companies that each and everyone here could have contributed. Yes, i have a civil service job that allows me a comfortable retirement. Guess what, that was my choice. If you chose to be a mechanic or computer engineer thats your choice. If you havent prepared for your retirement thats your choice. I dont think i can be any clearer. If your feelings are hurt, i dont give a f$ck.
    "I drink a great deal. I sleep a little, and I smoke cigar after cigar. That is why I am in two-hundred-percent form."
    -- Winston Churchill

    "LET'S GO FRANCIS"     Peter

  • PatrickbrickPatrickbrick Posts: 7,924 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Well this escalated quickly.  I get all sides here, but as was stated there are retirement saving options outside of what a job may provide.  I took advantage of this as a 20 year old it is entirely self funded but so, so worth it. It's time for a smoke now.
    "We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give".  Winston Churchill.
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  • 0patience0patience Posts: 10,665 ✭✭✭✭✭
    @Usaf06
    What I am saying is don't be so quick to put your judgement hat on. 
    Things happen and get out of control of the person. An accident, theft of retirement funds, etc.
    Granted, they chose to work there. 

    Having an attitude that everyone makes poor choices really has to question your compassion for people. 
    My retirement, isn't an issue. I'm fine where I am, not to mention each year I'm here, I just get that much more comfortable in retirement.       

    In Fumo Pax
    Money can't buy happiness, but it can buy cigars and that's close enough.

    Wylaff said:
    Atmospheric pressure and crap.
  • Usaf06Usaf06 Posts: 11,298 ✭✭✭✭✭
    0patience said:
    @Usaf06
    What I am saying is don't be so quick to put your judgement hat on. 
    Things happen and get out of control of the person. An accident, theft of retirement funds, etc.
    Granted, they chose to work there. 

    Having an attitude that everyone makes poor choices really has to question your compassion for people. 
    My retirement, isn't an issue. I'm fine where I am, not to mention each year I'm here, I just get that much more comfortable in retirement.       

    Never judged anyone. Simply stated we live by the choices we make.
    "I drink a great deal. I sleep a little, and I smoke cigar after cigar. That is why I am in two-hundred-percent form."
    -- Winston Churchill

    "LET'S GO FRANCIS"     Peter

  • Usaf06Usaf06 Posts: 11,298 ✭✭✭✭✭
    @jw517 Im sorry you got your feelings hurt and had to flag my response...lol 
    Actually Im not. Go find a safe space to crawl back into if you cant handle it.
    "I drink a great deal. I sleep a little, and I smoke cigar after cigar. That is why I am in two-hundred-percent form."
    -- Winston Churchill

    "LET'S GO FRANCIS"     Peter

  • Amos_UmwhatAmos_Umwhat Posts: 8,804 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I'm not offended, or angry, or hurt, or anything like that.  Just to be clear.  I'm kind of surprised and saddened.  

    I thought Zero's and Peters statements well thought and well put, although I think Peter strayed a little from the center of the conversation, but not too far.  I don't think there were any cognizant answers to the questions I asked, but that's probably because there really are none.  

    The blame, when a corporation makes promises to its workers, then subtly jerks the rug out from under them, seems to fall to - the workers, if I follow the logic above.  And I'm not sure anyone was blaming the government, or expecting it to take care of everyone.  How would that impact the salaries of those working for the government, after all?

    I also noticed several mentions of private retirement accounts which responsible forward thinking people would have used, instead of relying on their employers promises.  Can I just say Shearson Lehman & Hutton?  

    All in all this has left me with a couple of quotes that keep pushing forward from the recesses of my mind, which I'll share because a couple others may be thinking similar things.

    "The best laid plans of mice and men do often go awry"  -- Robert Burns

    and you know that's true, 'cause he had a cigar named after him, right?

    "Ah, Robbie, you asked them for bread and they gave you a stone."  -- Robert Burns mother, upon seeing the statue erected of him, posthumously.  

    and finally, "Let those with ears listen."  JC


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  • Glock1975Glock1975 Posts: 5,152 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited February 2018
  • Usaf06Usaf06 Posts: 11,298 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Glock1975 said:
    I also heard @Usaf06 is low, Ok spent under $300 this month
    Who is this noob
    "I drink a great deal. I sleep a little, and I smoke cigar after cigar. That is why I am in two-hundred-percent form."
    -- Winston Churchill

    "LET'S GO FRANCIS"     Peter

  • StubbleStubble Posts: 8,988 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Hey, you gonna eat the rest of that corndog?
  • Glock1975Glock1975 Posts: 5,152 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Usaf06 said:
    Glock1975 said:
    I also heard @Usaf06 is low, Ok spent under $300 this month
    Who is this noob
    Nothing to see here. 
  • WaterNerdWaterNerd Posts: 3,368 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak out and remove all doubt
    — Abraham Lincoln


  • Amos_UmwhatAmos_Umwhat Posts: 8,804 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Exactly.  
    There are no accidents, everything is in your hands.  
    All you need is clear detailed information of precisely what the future holds.  
    And a cute picture.  

    Oh, and choose your parents well, so you don't end up with some weird disease or condition that makes you a burden.

    That's the ticket.  That's all there is to it!  

    Lazy bums.
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    "If you do not read the newspapers you're uninformed.  If you do read the newspapers, you're misinformed." --  Mark Twain
  • TX98Z28TX98Z28 Posts: 2,448 ✭✭✭✭✭
    WaterNerd said:
    Unfortunately houses in California are crazy expensive. Your right how do young adults get in. Average age around here when people buy a house are in their mid 30's early 40's. With a 30 year mortgage they will have to work till they are 70 before its payed off.
    My neighbors across the street moved from California around 7 years ago. After selling their place in California they were able to buy two $400K houses in are neighborhood. They rented/sold the second home to their son and wife who also moved from California. It's just ridiculous how expensive thing are over there.
    If you quote me do the @TX98Z28 in your text or I won't be notified of your quote, Thanks.
  • avengethisavengethis Posts: 5,689 ✭✭✭✭✭
    400k here by me would by you a really top end home.  3000 sqft, 4 bed 2.5 bath and nice finishes
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  • NorCalR1NorCalR1 Posts: 4,197 ✭✭✭✭✭
    400k here by me would by you a really top end home.  3000 sqft, 4 bed 2.5 bath and nice finishes
    And in San Jose that wouldn’t even buy you a townhouse. Maybe an outhouse... 

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