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  • jlmarta
    jlmarta Posts: 7,880 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Prayers continue. Love and best wishes for you both. 
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  • Stubble
    Stubble Posts: 10,186 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Prayers sent...
    Hey, you gonna eat the rest of that corndog?
  • Jay6
    Jay6 Posts: 755 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Prayers sent brother!
  • peter4jc
    peter4jc Posts: 18,098 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Been praying all day, Ricky.  How'd the surgery go today?  Any news, or is it too early?
    "I could've had a Mi Querida!"   Nick Bardis
  • Rhamlin
    Rhamlin Posts: 9,137 ✭✭✭✭✭
    The surgery went well. But it is cancer and we have to wait on the biopsy results to know what kind it was. And because they can't do an MRI they don't know if there's smaller tumors that the CT scan couldn't pick up. 
    She was basically paralyzed on her right side by the time they got around to operating. And now the surgeon says she might not get it back. 
    Im so freaking POed! She walked in on her own, she was still walking the next day when I got there, even the day after that. But everyday she told everyone that walked in that it was getting worse and they did nothing because it wasn't life threatening. All because they wanted their long Christmas break. I'm thinking of calling a lawyer. I don't see anyway out of having to quit my job and go on welfare unless my insurance will pay for home care so I can go back to the boat. 
  • arch72
    arch72 Posts: 772 ✭✭✭✭
    Really sorry to that @Rhamlin do they think she will recover the use of the right side?
  • TNBigfoot68
    TNBigfoot68 Posts: 2,810 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Oh my, Ricky so sorry to hear this. I will continue to pray for you all and full recovery.
    I was born a fool, and just got bigger!
  • Rhamlin
    Rhamlin Posts: 9,137 ✭✭✭✭✭
    arch72 said:
    Really sorry to that @Rhamlin do they think she will recover the use of the right side?
    He wasn't very optimistic 
  • arch72
    arch72 Posts: 772 ✭✭✭✭
    edited December 2016
    sorry to hear that bother @Rhamlin my prayers are with you 
  • jarubla
    jarubla Posts: 2,329 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Praying for you both, Ricky.

    Talk to the lawyer, not to be spiteful, but to see what can be done. If they were negligent, that needs to be corrected, IMHO. 
    “There’ll be two dates on your tombstone and all your friends will read ’em but all that’s gonna matter is that little dash between ’em.” -Kevin Welch
  • webmost
    webmost Posts: 7,713 ✭✭✭✭✭
    See, this is why I don't like these prayer threads. They just make you feel sad and helpless.


    “It has been a source of great pain to me to have met with so many among [my] opponents who had not the liberality to distinguish between political and social opposition; who transferred at once to the person, the hatred they bore to his political opinions.” —Thomas Jefferson (1808)


  • Albinfk
    Albinfk Posts: 1,923 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Not sticking up for the surgeon but I know many doctors that have retired early because they can't treat their patients due to Obamacare! Continued prayers.
  • Dunn2
    Dunn2 Posts: 23
    Congrats to my buddy rick on his daughters wedding. Ive enjoyed many cigars with this guy and look forward to many more in the new year. Keep rick and his family in your prayers as his wife faces more cancer treatments. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
  • Rhamlin
    Rhamlin Posts: 9,137 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Albinfk said:
    Not sticking up for the surgeon but I know many doctors that have retired early because they can't treat their patients due to Obamacare! Continued prayers.
    I know brother. And I know part of the reason they had to wait was because of the blood thinners in her system. And the guy is the best neurosurgeon in our area and we were lucky to get him. It just riles me up that they wouldn't do anything till after Christmas because it wasn't life threatening. 
  • Rhamlin
    Rhamlin Posts: 9,137 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited January 2017
    Dunn2 said:
    Congrats to my buddy rick on his daughters wedding. Ive enjoyed many cigars with this guy and look forward to many more in the new year. Keep rick and his family in your prayers as his wife faces more cancer treatments. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
    Thanks Phillip. Glad you and Michelle were able to come. And tell Christian that we are in his debt for making sure Carla got to watch it. I can't thank him enough. 
  • Rhamlin
    Rhamlin Posts: 9,137 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Guess they will start radiation tomorrow. Don't know how many treatments she'll need. Then she'll be either starting chemo again or intense rehab. I've got to have a colonoscopy tomorrow morning. Really looking forward to that. Even Carla thinks that's funny. 
  • 90+_Irishman
    90+_Irishman Posts: 12,409 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Sorry to hear all this Ricky but we will be praying for you and Carla and a speedy recovery and good results for you both!
    "When walking in open territory bother no one. If someone bothers you, ask them to stop. If they do not stop, destroy them."
  • TNBigfoot68
    TNBigfoot68 Posts: 2,810 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Hang in there Ricky, keeping you all in my prayers 
    I was born a fool, and just got bigger!
  • jsnake
    jsnake Posts: 5,979 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Ricky I've seen your posts on Facebook and you guys are in my prayers. I know you both have been through so much. 
  • bert873
    bert873 Posts: 2,561 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Really sorry to hear this Ricky. Continued prayers for you and Carla. 
  • Rhamlin
    Rhamlin Posts: 9,137 ✭✭✭✭✭
    She just finished up her first 5 days of radiation treatment and Physical therapy. Been a long week. She has been able to move her arm a little she looks like she's trying to lift a thousand pounds but she did it. Still can't move her leg any, maybe next week. 
  • arch72
    arch72 Posts: 772 ✭✭✭✭
    Glad she is making some improvement Still praying for you both @Rhamlin
  • arch72
    arch72 Posts: 772 ✭✭✭✭
    Ok well I think I could use a little prayer having a lot of stress these days Mom is still about the same but is forgetting things somethings but now we have another problem and I am stress over it big time I can't go into detail about but I need pray to stop stressing about thank you all in advance :) 
  • Yakster
    Yakster Posts: 31,362 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I'll be praying for you and your family, Archie.
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  • TNBigfoot68
    TNBigfoot68 Posts: 2,810 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Prayers
    I was born a fool, and just got bigger!
  • arch72
    arch72 Posts: 772 ✭✭✭✭
    Thank you brothers hopefully it will all get taken care of tomorrow
  • Yakster
    Yakster Posts: 31,362 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Just found out my dad broke his leg this morning, they're waiting to operate either tomorrow or Saturday.  Prayers really appreciated.
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  • TNBigfoot68
    TNBigfoot68 Posts: 2,810 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Praying for your Dad 
    @Yakster
    I was born a fool, and just got bigger!