I dreamt that my best friend had an affair with my wife while we were engaged.
I dreamt that I didnt find this out until four years later, after my wedding - in which said best friend served as my best man.
I dreamt I found that I found that out the night before I had to leave my wife for a year. A year in which she would be in the same town with that friend.
I dreamt that like an idiot I stayed with my wife despite this knowledge.
I dreamt that friend, who I hadnt spoken to since I found out about the affair, ended up a loser alcoholic who couldnt hold down a job to save his life.
I dreamt that 20+ years later, while my wife and I were doing thru our divorce, she was seeing him again.
My recovering alcoholic soon-to-be ex wife. Who has my children.
Not before the ink was dry on the divorce papers.
I dreamt that this was happening before the divorce papers had even been drawn up.
Then I woke up from this dream.
And realized it wasnt a dream after all.
It was my life.
*UPDATE*
Found out the idiot soon-to-be-ex took the loser on a date to a Royals game last Sunday.
WITH MY F*CKING KIDS!
Which she paid for.
Again, not before the ink is dry on the divorce papers - but before the divorce papers have even been drawn up.
And I find this out after she texts me asking for money to send our daughter to basketball camp, because she is broke and her accounts are overdrawn. So in effect she's asking for me to foot the bill for her to f*ck around on me, at the expense of our daughters living their lives to the fullest.
I dreamt that my best friend had an affair with my wife while we were engaged.
I dreamt that I didnt find this out until four years later, after my wedding - in which said best friend served as my best man.
I dreamt I found that I found that out the night before I had to leave my wife for a year. A year in which she would be in the same town with that friend.
I dreamt that like an idiot I stayed with my wife despite this knowledge.
I dreamt that friend, who I hadnt spoken to since I found out about the affair, ended up a loser alcoholic who couldnt hold down a job to save his life.
I dreamt that 20+ years later, while my wife and I were doing thru our divorce, she was seeing him again.
My recovering alcoholic soon-to-be ex wife. Who has my children.
Not before the ink was dry on the divorce papers.
I dreamt that this was happening before the divorce papers had even been drawn up.
Then I woke up from this dream.
And realized it wasnt a dream after all.
It was my life.
*UPDATE*
Found out the idiot soon-to-be-ex took the loser on a date to a Royals game last Sunday.
WITH MY F*CKING KIDS!
Which she paid for.
Again, not before the ink is dry on the divorce papers - but before the divorce papers have even been drawn up.
And I find this out after she texts me asking for money to send our daughter to basketball camp, because she is broke and her accounts are overdrawn. So in effect she's asking for me to foot the bill for her to f*ck around on me, at the expense of our daughters living their lives to the fullest.
Is Life TRYING to get me to shoot someone????
oh man. Painful and a bit angered to read that. Deep breaths my friend. Things happen for a reason and all is in it's right place (especially when we don't see it that way). I'll be praying for you man. Very sorry to hear these things.
I dreamt that my best friend had an affair with my wife while we were engaged.
I dreamt that I didnt find this out until four years later, after my wedding - in which said best friend served as my best man.
I dreamt I found that I found that out the night before I had to leave my wife for a year. A year in which she would be in the same town with that friend.
I dreamt that like an idiot I stayed with my wife despite this knowledge.
I dreamt that friend, who I hadnt spoken to since I found out about the affair, ended up a loser alcoholic who couldnt hold down a job to save his life.
I dreamt that 20+ years later, while my wife and I were doing thru our divorce, she was seeing him again.
My recovering alcoholic soon-to-be ex wife. Who has my children.
Not before the ink was dry on the divorce papers.
I dreamt that this was happening before the divorce papers had even been drawn up.
Then I woke up from this dream.
And realized it wasnt a dream after all.
It was my life.
*UPDATE*
Found out the idiot soon-to-be-ex took the loser on a date to a Royals game last Sunday.
WITH MY F*CKING KIDS!
Which she paid for.
Again, not before the ink is dry on the divorce papers - but before the divorce papers have even been drawn up.
And I find this out after she texts me asking for money to send our daughter to basketball camp, because she is broke and her accounts are overdrawn. So in effect she's asking for me to foot the bill for her to f*ck around on me, at the expense of our daughters living their lives to the fullest.
Is Life TRYING to get me to shoot someone????
Oh, man. I agree with Jiunn, it pains me to read about this. No one deserves this kind of sh*t, my friend, but please hang in there. Don't do anything rash. I know that's easy for me to say - I'm not the one being sh*t on. But we all know you're a better person than either your ex- or the as shole ex-friend of yours. Trust me, they'll get theirs. What goes around, comes around.
With her playing the "I need money" game and then spending it on the sh*thead, the answer may be as simple as tightening the ol' purse-strings. I suggest making it a battle of wits, rather than some negative act that'll only come back and bite you in the ass. It's obvious you're smarter than she is so make that the battlefield.
Document each of her escapades and requests for money to show the judge the extent of her callousness. It sounds like you have a friend(s) keeping you informed so make use of that. Build your case as you go - don't do like I usually do and wait 'til the end and try to rely on memory to document your case. And know that we're all pulling for ya, Dude.
I dreamt that my best friend had an affair with my wife while we were engaged.
I dreamt that I didnt find this out until four years later, after my wedding - in which said best friend served as my best man.
I dreamt I found that I found that out the night before I had to leave my wife for a year. A year in which she would be in the same town with that friend.
I dreamt that like an idiot I stayed with my wife despite this knowledge.
I dreamt that friend, who I hadnt spoken to since I found out about the affair, ended up a loser alcoholic who couldnt hold down a job to save his life.
I dreamt that 20+ years later, while my wife and I were doing thru our divorce, she was seeing him again.
My recovering alcoholic soon-to-be ex wife. Who has my children.
Not before the ink was dry on the divorce papers.
I dreamt that this was happening before the divorce papers had even been drawn up.
Then I woke up from this dream.
And realized it wasnt a dream after all.
It was my life.
*UPDATE*
Found out the idiot soon-to-be-ex took the loser on a date to a Royals game last Sunday.
WITH MY F*CKING KIDS!
Which she paid for.
Again, not before the ink is dry on the divorce papers - but before the divorce papers have even been drawn up.
And I find this out after she texts me asking for money to send our daughter to basketball camp, because she is broke and her accounts are overdrawn. So in effect she's asking for me to foot the bill for her to f*ck around on me, at the expense of our daughters living their lives to the fullest.
Is Life TRYING to get me to shoot someone????
Hey Sniper, Your not alone. I had a dream similar to yours. Some of the specifics are different but the essence is the same. Wish I could say you'll get over it...I don't think it works that way. Only can come to terms with what is and find your own peace. I've learned alot through the process and made my own mistakes, if you ever want to talk just let me know.
When two of my freinds die in one week. my buddy josh die at the age of 26 from a heart attack and my other buddy kurk die less than a week later at the age of 23 he was riding on a tractor and got rear ended by a semi. R.I.P. josh & kurk you guys will be greatly missed one of these days we will meet agian.
When two of my freinds die in one week. my buddy josh die at the age of 26 from a heart attack and my other buddy kurk die less than a week later at the age of 23 he was riding on a tractor and got rear ended by a semi. R.I.P. josh & kurk you guys will be greatly missed one of these days we will meet agian.
Yikes, man, sorry to hear this. Heart attack at 26? That's some scary **** right there. A guy I knew in elementary school went that way when we hit about 30 or 31 and I thought that was scary young...
When two of my freinds die in one week. my buddy josh die at the age of 26 from a heart attack and my other buddy kurk die less than a week later at the age of 23 he was riding on a tractor and got rear ended by a semi. R.I.P. josh & kurk you guys will be greatly missed one of these days we will meet agian.
Yikes, man, sorry to hear this. Heart attack at 26? That's some scary **** right there. A guy I knew in elementary school went that way when we hit about 30 or 31 and I thought that was scary young...
he got he back **** up in high school and has hade to take high doses of pain meds ever since.I think thats what caused his heart attack.
My sincerest condolences Joe, this is awful my friend. I think everyone who reads this post about these true tragedies should take the time to light up a cigar in these young men's honor and reflect on the fact that we should try our best to live for today as best we can, because tomorrow is NOT promised.
the "I won the lotto" look on my dogs face and the happy dance he does after cleaning out the littler box when we aren't looking. F'ing Petey.
You should also mention how both of your dogs eat grass and puke. Every time. They never learn. Theyre so cute though.
hahahaha, yeah like when your trying to wind down with a nice cigar on the new bench, and all you hear is the honking and horking of a dogs stomach. Over and Over again. wtf is up with that?
Hmmm, I have a dog that loves to endulge herself in kitty crunchers......
yeah the only upside is that everyonce in a while, he'll sneak in there (Igloo looking thing) all quiet like and realize the cat's already in there. THATS a good time. The cats are way older so the dogs still don't get why the cats hate them so much . . . .
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Found out the idiot soon-to-be-ex took the loser on a date to a Royals game last Sunday.
WITH MY F*CKING KIDS!
Which she paid for.
Again, not before the ink is dry on the divorce papers - but before the divorce papers have even been drawn up.
And I find this out after she texts me asking for money to send our daughter to basketball camp, because she is broke and her accounts are overdrawn. So in effect she's asking for me to foot the bill for her to f*ck around on me, at the expense of our daughters living their lives to the fullest.
Is Life TRYING to get me to shoot someone????
Oh, man. I agree with Jiunn, it pains me to read about this. No one deserves this kind of sh*t, my friend, but please hang in there. Don't do anything rash. I know that's easy for me to say - I'm not the one being sh*t on. But we all know you're a better person than either your ex- or the as shole ex-friend of yours. Trust me, they'll get theirs. What goes around, comes around.
With her playing the "I need money" game and then spending it on the sh*thead, the answer may be as simple as tightening the ol' purse-strings. I suggest making it a battle of wits, rather than some negative act that'll only come back and bite you in the ass. It's obvious you're smarter than she is so make that the battlefield.
Document each of her escapades and requests for money to show the judge the extent of her callousness. It sounds like you have a friend(s) keeping you informed so make use of that. Build your case as you go - don't do like I usually do and wait 'til the end and try to rely on memory to document your case. And know that we're all pulling for ya, Dude.
Even on the Things I Hate thread, this is some ugly ****.
Dude.... That stinks. :-)
RIP Josh and Kurk - gone but NEVER forgotten.